Men must feel at least a little threatened by a perceptive woman to be truly disarmed by her - because there's an inherent respect, and a subtle undercurrent of psychological danger.
In my experience, external veneer may threaten it only once and very early (something pretty, something in the past that could be tethered to 'unfulfillment' or 'missed opportunity') as a result of an uncertain confidence or a calculating mind. Overcoming this, of course, same makes the bond ever deeper.
From there, all the gateways are internal; self-transcendent. The 'call to action' you mention above from her, something like:
'Rise to my level, you will not be left behind IF ONLY you see inside yourself what I see in you.'
The forging of the complete man, tied to earth through water.
Chemical and intellectual at the same time.
In my experience, external veneer may threaten it only once and very early (something pretty, something in the past that could be tethered to 'unfulfillment' or 'missed opportunity') as a result of an uncertain confidence or a calculating mind. Overcoming this, of course, same makes the bond ever deeper.
From there, all the gateways are internal; self-transcendent. The 'call to action' you mention above from her, something like:
'Rise to my level, you will not be left behind IF ONLY you see inside yourself what I see in you.'
The forging of the complete man, tied to earth through water.