Women are conquered physically, men are conquered spiritually. Experienced men are well aware that if they sleep with women who are sufficiently attracted to them - with enough sheer force and brute dominance - more often than not, through quivers and intense verbal assertion, these women become emotionally bound. This is due to the natural flooding of oxytocin during sex for most women, increasing the likelihood of deep bonds forming.
Men do not inherently hold their bodies with the same sacred reverence as women. Psychologically, men perceive their vessel as more disposable - a means of conquest. Women often underestimate how well men can compartmentalise sex. Many can sleep with a vast range of women in a state of pure carnal rage - like the whirlwind fury of a drugged-out bender or an immersive tear - all while actively feeling annoyed by the company of these women. Often, they subconsciously resist spiritual penetration during such phases.
With certain exceptions - though highly sexually arousing for some, being desired with such ferocious hunger - the majority of men do not feel conquered by a woman, even if she completely dominates him carnally. It is possible for men to grow fond of these women and feel affection for those they regularly unleash upon, but they perceive such women as owned by them, not the other way around. Men can feel affection for, or even a certain degree of love towards, these women for what they provide - but without being spiritually or psychologically imprinted upon, they remain unconquered.
Women imprint ethereally - through soul penetration, which is a form of spiritual dominance. Such dominance is not forceful - it is elegant, moves intuitively, siren-like - with smooth softness and notes of endearment. It is intense with desire, yet equally fluid in its seductive nature - breath-like, slipping through the psyche like mist on a quiet morning. These women comprehend that intensity is not enough - it is penetrative resonance and inspiration that imbue them into the very souls of men. The hairline cracks that most overlook become the very gaps through which their energy is absorbed - smoothing out jagged edges with tender, delicate fingertips. It is symbolic, impressionistic, subconscious tempering.
Female spiritual dominance is the striking of a divine spark within. It draws strength from soulful nourishment - its inherent energy is one of enlightenment through beauty, quelling the harshness of the world. In its flowing giving, it simultaneously etches itself silently - for to feel deeply, to ache with the sense of being alive, is to be tormented through profound personal transformation. These observant, perceptive women encode and embed themselves into the male psyche - enmeshed with their very becoming through realisation, through seeing the world with new eyes - to the extent that these men cannot fully separate their journey from the usher.
While men want to conquer, their very paradox is that they desire that which can never fully, soulfully belong to them. They always desire soulful women whose souls partially belong to something greater - to truth and beauty. It is this exquisite tension that keeps dreams alive.
"Conquered" feels a bit intense. I originally intended to use "penetrated" instead in the first sentence, but it felt too charged.
Never stop writing.