Illuminating Destruction

Generally speaking, "good girls" and "crazy bitches" each receive what the other covertly desires.

Men categorise women rapidly, thus, with "crazy bitches", they are able to be completely unhinged and experience near-transcendental, soul-alchemising sexual encounters. The act itself allows the boundaries of extreme taboo, spiritual masochism, undiluted degradation, potent annihilation, and arcane perversion to blur - acts that would normally be deeply ostracising or desecrating - are often consented to, because the psyche is aroused by the inverse of its own moral code. Moral inversion becomes the ultimate aphrodisiac - it is where our true shadows are released to play, however abysmally dark. In such cases, there is little or no internal moral conflict - and so, the experience carries unfettered sexual freedom. These women become vehicles of true shadow expression.

But to reach such calamitously undoing levels of violent, destabilising, and cathartic toxicity - there must be an instinctual absence of inherent respect - even if the man's aftercare is well-practised. Eros thrives in ambiguity and chaos, not in safety. "Crazy bitches" may become wives, but they are often not loved in the same protective manner as "good girls", because they do not inspire a desire to protect what is perceived as pure.

On the other hand, "good girls" are often chosen for their gentle, nurturing, and pure natures. Men often view them as muses - whimsical and kind, yet tinged with a Bambi-like sweet fragility. They evoke self-regulation in men, due to unconscious idealisation or internalised moral scripts. Thus, while men may love them and protect them with their lives, they will not defile or take "good girls" to the sexual extremes they are otherwise capable of. A wife - the mother of a man's children - is psychologically sacred. In many ways, she is subconsciously seen as an extension of his legacy, thus, to violate the "good girl" feels like a violation of the self - it evokes shame and disgust. There exists an internal, unconscious archetype men are unwilling to taint. This is the "good girl" lore.

Thus, "crazy bitches" will be screwed with the full force of a man's sexual nature, but may never know the pure, reverent love of a man. Meanwhile, "good girls" will be loved with utmost devotion and gently held in his hands, but may never know what it is to be desecrated like his whore - to witness the full, unfiltered expression of a man's sexual darkness. The quiet tragedy is that both long, subconsciously, for what the other receives.

There are rare outlier men capable of holding both internal paradigms - able to screw uninhibitedly, not out of disrespect, but from reverent surrender. These men are usually highly intelligent. Having worked through their internal binaries, they can hold seemingly contradictory concepts without collapsing them - creating a space where taboo becomes sacrament, degradation becomes liberation, and perversion becomes ritual - a charged, boundaryless experience - one in which those involved are both destroyed and illuminated.