This. This is truth. This is my truth. And one that it has taken me half a century to realize. Trust weaponized is something that may take many stories to unpack, as a writer. And the complex layering? Maybe some men are. But I think most of us aren't. So few people have the words and are taught to look deeply inward to even see themselves. If we can't do that, how can we begin to show others who may see us as binary? Or maybe trinary? Or maybe just not as complex and nuanced as we are.
Perfect post for this moment. And I apologize for typos and logic gaps, I rarely reply from a phone and am quite literally all thumbs. But this piece speaks to my reality deeply, and that is really rare.
Wondering how does someone keep their livelihood and chores intact through these defining 2 years of dismantling and restructuring? In that boat, and your writing is profoundly enabling to walk down the healing journey.
The truth is, there will be moments when you cannot - when everything feels like it is unravelling - and that is okay. Depending on your finances, hiring cleaners to help with life admin can be beneficial. Physical decluttering is just as important - it's like a haircut for the space around you.
This. This is truth. This is my truth. And one that it has taken me half a century to realize. Trust weaponized is something that may take many stories to unpack, as a writer. And the complex layering? Maybe some men are. But I think most of us aren't. So few people have the words and are taught to look deeply inward to even see themselves. If we can't do that, how can we begin to show others who may see us as binary? Or maybe trinary? Or maybe just not as complex and nuanced as we are.
Perfect post for this moment. And I apologize for typos and logic gaps, I rarely reply from a phone and am quite literally all thumbs. But this piece speaks to my reality deeply, and that is really rare.
Wondering how does someone keep their livelihood and chores intact through these defining 2 years of dismantling and restructuring? In that boat, and your writing is profoundly enabling to walk down the healing journey.
The truth is, there will be moments when you cannot - when everything feels like it is unravelling - and that is okay. Depending on your finances, hiring cleaners to help with life admin can be beneficial. Physical decluttering is just as important - it's like a haircut for the space around you.
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