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George Wilson's avatar

Absolutely. Men want to feel like they're needed - like they're wanted. 'Open this glass jar' or 'oops I dropped my handkerchief' used to be the little subtle ways women made men feel needed

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i3utm's avatar

Thank you for making this post. It is very much needed.

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Francisco d’Anconia's avatar

There is a powerful synergy at work here that needs to be leaned into and cultivated in order to thrive. The red pill teaches that women are drawn to men who create abundance through faith in themselves and tireless dedication to their own internal vision, and that men who who rely on someone else’s vision, especially their own woman’s, will fail to create or maintain the conditions necessary for that synergy. In other words, women need to be needed by men not for guidance but for reinforcement of that vision. If you find a man whose vision compels you, help him keep that vision as his focus. If you find a woman who wants to be part of your vision, don’t forget that she is drawn to you because of that, not how well you fit into her vision.

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