When it comes to male attraction, it is not merely about being respected and appreciated - it is equally about being genuinely needed. Men often display profound generosity towards women they truly care about. However, mainstream culture - with its emphasis on women "being strong" and "only wanting a man but never needing one" - has misunderstood a fundamental aspect of men's nature. Men are dutiful problem-solvers. They derive a deep sense of satisfaction from resolving and assisting with matters that are meaningful to us - just as their actions will inspire us to care for them in return, creating a reciprocal dynamic.
Authenticity is key. Acknowledging the importance of intellectual growth and striving for personal fulfilment as women does not preclude recognising the value of genuinely needing and enjoying the company of a man - provided he is competent and reliable. This dynamic does not diminish our autonomy but rather reflects a natural human inclination. It is not about fabricating needs or dependencies - but embracing authentic reliance and synergy.
Absolutely. Men want to feel like they're needed - like they're wanted. 'Open this glass jar' or 'oops I dropped my handkerchief' used to be the little subtle ways women made men feel needed
Thank you for making this post. It is very much needed.