Healing Through Purpose
If society genuinely wanted to assist lost men, it would encourage independent-thinking older men to share their insights on masculine wisdom, discovering purpose, and how to lead with integrity.
Having traversed similar paths, older men possess a depth of empathy that uniquely positions them to support younger men in uncovering their masculine identity. Many men find themselves grappling with the challenges of fulfilling their purpose in a society that increasingly leans towards feminine and emotionally reactive paradigms. In this way, our societal fabric feels imbalanced.
Frequently, men are left to navigate the complexities of life in solitude. When they find themselves at their lowest, they are often directed towards "therapy" or "counselling". At that juncture, many have grown accustomed to facing their struggles alone and may be hesitant to open up to a female therapist or counsellor, who will not fully grasp their perspective. The predominance of female practitioners in these fields speaks to a broader tendency towards feminine modes of "healing", which will not resonate deeply with most men. This can result in solutions that serve merely as temporary band-aids, rather than addressing the root causes of their distress.
True male "healing" encompasses a journey towards discovering purpose and spirituality. It involves unearthing a moral code and personal truths that stand apart from societal pressures. This process includes recognising where they are needed and how they can contribute to causes that align with their beliefs. Male grief is multifaceted, often expressing itself through both anger and tears, yet, society tends to favour the latter, promoting a narrative of "inclusivity" yet stifling the full spectrum of male emotional expression.
There are indeed good men, or the potential for good men, within our society. However, modern structures have often overlooked them, creating barriers that make it increasingly challenging for them to assert their leadership and to embody their truth.