Many women lack "game" because they either do not understand how to charm men or simply do not care. They believe that seducing a man for the purpose of commitment requires creating unnecessary conflict to manufacture sexual tension.
Spiritually masculine women, despite their outward femininity, often mistakenly believe that men value job titles and income. They frequently use these as metrics to justify their "worth". However, men tend to appreciate women for our softness and kindness. By challenging a man to "prove" himself according to the very standards women use to judge men, a woman will risk losing the male's interest altogether. When women approach with blunt verbal sparring, they unwittingly showcase a lack of eloquence. While men may enjoy this kind of dynamic with their peers, what they seek from women is a soft seduction characterised by warmth, playfulness, and dreamy imagination. He wants a "babygirl", not a Boris to wrestle with.
Men desire soft cues that inspire rather than confront. A man yearns to be whisked away from the mundanity of daily life into a realm where he feels uplifted. A nurturing woman embodies receptiveness, listens attentively, and demonstrates consideration for his feelings and well-being. She is perceptive, yet demurely yielding, gently demonstrating her willingness to submit to him through inference. She remembers the small details about him, tailoring her conversations and actions to gently please him. Rather than resorting to overt vulgarity, she weaves her feminine desire into how she carries herself. This is a woman a man wants to protect and provide for.
For example, consider a woman who approaches a man with the assertive statement that she earns six figures, declaring that she does not associate with "beta" men. This immediately conveys spiritual masculinity, she also appears argumentative, expecting him to prove himself simply because she deems herself to be the "prize", and has not made an effort to get to know him. In contrast, a charming woman would lead with a specific observation about him, teasing details about him out playfully, while creating inside jokes and silly nicknames. If he mentions his fondness for oysters, she might surprise him the next time they meet by ordering oysters from that quaint seaside village he mentioned in passing. See the difference? He will likely want to see the latter one again.
Ultimately, "game" is just about caring enough about another person. It is a mutual dance of discovery rather than a duel with fencing swords. In matters of the heart - make love, not war.