Those burdened by worthiness wounds often labour feverishly, relying on external markers to justify their existence. This morphs into an insatiable beast - relentlessly fuelling their pursuit of material success, regardless of the cost. Yet, beneath the accolades, many grapple with guilt when indulging in life’s simple pleasures.
It is only through profound introspection and deep inner work that they begin to heal - releasing their dependence on external validation. This transformative shift redirects their focus inward - from external affirmation to internal self-worth. However, through this healing journey - many find themselves slowly stripped of the very drive that once propelled them forward. Aware of this, they become almost reluctant to complete their healing, fearing the complete loss of that immense drive - unaware that its source can be recalibrated.
What follows this healing is often a sense of peace, yet also an unfamiliar aimlessness, as they learn to savour life’s simple joys for the first time, unencumbered - a foreign, almost disorienting concept. What once held profound meaning now feels weightless - devoid of its former significance. Often, their perception of money shifts - from a marker of validation to a resource that enables freedom - in all its forms.
The true challenge, then, is to strike a balance - learning to harmonise the enjoyment of life with a fulfilling and meaningful career - and moving forward at a steadier and more sustainable pace. Many eventually find a new foundational anchor for their drive and rediscover the desire to strive, accompanied by a genuine desire to give back - this time, from a place imbued with warmth.