Divinely Orchestrated Opportunity
As a woman, when the man you love is going through immense hardship, understand that it is an initiatory portal, an alchemical descent, a transformational rite to his next becoming - a recalibration, a rearrangement, and a shedding of the facets of himself that no longer serve his trajectory, his ascension. He will equally discover that which is indomitable within himself and claim the parts that have been violently sculpted by pain, for trust in oneself, for many men, is earnt.
Thus, with heartfelt gratitude, see it as a divinely orchestrated opportunity for you to show him the depth of your unwavering fidelity, love, and devotion. Understand that he too has shared himself with you at this very vulnerable threshold, when his fingers are still clawing at the contours of the gruelling abyss.
While mainstream narratives package this as onerous, laborious, and burdensome, know that without adversity, love expressed only during moments of ease and gilded pleasantries is untested, an ornamental dalliance with stunted legs, not the kind that is prepared to tear through the nine circles of hell without hesitation - and perceptive men know the difference.
So nourish him, speak life into him, stay. Show him he is worthy, he is chosen, he is wanted - for who he is, what he is. For the gift such a forge bestows is the possibility of a sanctified adamantine bond.

