The saddest thing is how difficult our current gender discourse makes it to stick with this. While I was going through what you describe here for the first time, so much online dating takes would stick in my head like, "never settle," "you'll know if someone is right for you," "always trust your gut, don't waste time on someone if it doesn't feel right," etc, etc.
The lack of nuance and understanding of the complexities of love is just tragic nowadays.
The saddest thing is how difficult our current gender discourse makes it to stick with this. While I was going through what you describe here for the first time, so much online dating takes would stick in my head like, "never settle," "you'll know if someone is right for you," "always trust your gut, don't waste time on someone if it doesn't feel right," etc, etc.
The lack of nuance and understanding of the complexities of love is just tragic nowadays.
YES! I slowly came to the realization that the vast majority of what is pushed these days as relationship/dating advice is crap.